A matrix $Pintextmd{C}^{ntimes n}$ is called a generalized reflection matrix if $P^{H}=P$ and $P^{2}=I$. An $ntimes n$ complex matrix $A$ is said to be a reflexive (anti-reflexive) matrix with respect to the generalized reflection matrix $P$ if $A=PAP$ ($A=-PAP$). In this paper, we introduce two iterative methods for solving the pair of matrix equations $AXB=C$ and $DXE=F$ over reflexive and anti-reflexive matrices. The convergence of the iterative methods is also proposed. Finally, a numerical example is given to show the efficiency of the presented results.